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Jáchym Jerie
Your Exceptional Relationship
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Jáchym Jerie
Jáchym Jerie and wife Natasha Koo are the founders of “Your Exceptional Relationship”. They are the creators of a unique process called “The Exceptional Relationship Formula™” that removes drama from a relationship and replaces it with love, intimacy and connection.
To quote Sunday Times Bestseller Author Jamie Smart, “Jáchym isn’t ‘just another coach’; he awakens a life-transforming power in his clients that is the source of real growth. He has a deep, intuitive understanding of change work…”
Find out more about Jáchym here
The Love & Relationship Wellbeing 5 with Jáchym Jerie
1. What is your favourite quote, anecdote, proverb or experience that helps with relationship wellbeing?
Jáchym: “An Exceptional Relationship takes an exceptional commitment.”
People run for the woods when they’re faced with difficulties in a relationship. The exact opposite is necessary: you need to go through the difficulty and grow together as a team. In the process, your love and relationship will be strengthened. Just because we don’t see a solution straight away doesn’t mean that there isn’t one. That’s why having an exceptional commitment gives you the trust that can carry you through even the toughest relationship challenges.
2. What is your top piece of advice for relationship wellbeing?
Jáchym: You’re the creator of your experience. The more you own your emotions and stop blaming your spouse, the more your relationship will change. When you take full responsibility for your life, you’ll be faced with a choice: will you choose love or fear? You can then engage in relationships with more intention and alignment.
3. What is the one change in the world that you would like to see? (in your area of wellbeing or in the world in general or both)
Jáchym: We’d love to see people stop compromising in their relationship and start showing up authentically as themselves. Most people believe that they are solely responsible for their partner’s happiness. This creates an unhealthy and dependent dynamic where they’re constantly trying to please each other and make each other happy. That isn’t sustainable, nor is it deeply nourishing.
When couples shift away from compromising, they can grow together as a synergistic unit and the relationship becomes a space for deep fulfillment, love, and respect.
Relationships are the building blocks of society, as we change how we relate, we’ll revolutionize the world. This change in the world starts with the most minute actions and attitudes within our home and with our loved ones.
4. Which resources (books / websites / videos etc) for relationship wellbeing would you recommend?
Jáchym: For relationships:
- The 5 Love Languages
- Attached
- John Gottman’s books
- Our Blog yourexceptionalrelationship.com
5. What’s the one thing that always makes you smile?
Jáchym: My wife Natasha.
One bonus question, is there anything else pertinent you would like to add to the conversation?
Jáchym: We have barely scratched the surface of what’s possible in human relationships. Many people worship the honeymoon and believe that’s the best period. It isn’t. After the honeymoon, you’ll face challenges and power struggles, which is a normal progression of a long-term relationship.
Most couples get stuck at this stage and never make it through to the other side. When you do, the relationship is transformed to bring out the best in you. It’s exponentially better than the honeymoon because you are growing as two incredible individuals in an unbeatable team. Don’t settle for the ‘norm’ in society. Set your own standards and create your own Exceptional Relationship!
Further Exploration - Jáchym Jerie
Website: Your Exceptional Relationship
Jáchym and Natasha's website containing information about them and their approach, how to work with them and a blog with a wealth of marriage advice
Youtube Channel: Intolign
Jáchym and Natasha's YouTube channel containing videos to help with relationship wellbeing such as "Break The Hypnotic Spell: Influence & Manipulation" & "Why Ideologies Come From Our Shadow Beliefs"
Article: How to Address Blame in Your Marriage
Jáchym and Natasha's article for The Relationship Guy discussing how to address blame in a marriage and what can be done instead
Social Media - Follow Jáchym and Your Exceptional Relationship
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