Love, Relationship & Environmental Wellbeing Books

Books to support love, relationship & environmental wellbeing with recommendations from Peaceful Soul fundamentals, guides and interviews

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The Art Of Saying NO: How To Stand Your Ground, Reclaim Your Time And Energy, And Refuse To Be Taken For Granted (Without Feeling Guilty!) by Damon Zahariades

The Art Of Saying NO: How To Stand Your Ground, Reclaim Your Time And Energy, And Refuse To Be Taken For Granted (Without Feeling Guilty!)

Book from Damon Zahariades providing a step-by-step, strategic guide to stop being a people pleaser, set boundaries & develop the assertiveness you need to maintain them.

You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters by Kate Murphy

You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters

Book from Kate Murphy drawing on countless conversations she has had with everyone from priests to CIA interrogators, focus group moderators to bartenders to show how only by listening well can we truly connect with others.

Why We Love by Dr. Helen Fisher

Why We Love

Renowned anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher examines the phenomenon of love―from its origins in the brain to the havoc it creates in our bodies and behavior. Why We Love offers new answers to age-old questions: what love is, who we love―and how to keep love alive.

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life

Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend's book helping you to learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself.

Codependent discovery and recovery 2.0: A holistic approach to healing and freeing yourself

Codependent Discovery and Recovery 2.0: A Holistic Approach to Healing and Freeing Yourself

Mary Joye's book showing what motivates codependency and teaching you how to overcome the toxic thinking and behaviors associated with it by using evidence-based techniques of healing

The Power of Showing Up- How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired by Daniel Siegel, MD and Tina Payne Bryson, PhD

The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired

Book from Daniel Siegel, MD and Tina Payne Bryson, PhD looking at how the very best scientific predictors for how any child turns out—in terms of happiness, academic success, leadership skills, and meaningful relationships—is whether at least one adult in their life has consistently shown up for them. The Power of Showing Up provides the 4 simple building blocks of showing up and healthy child development, the 4 S's; Safe, Seen, Soothed and Secure.

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving

David Richo''s book exploring how love is not so much a feeling rather being present. The book explores the five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in relationships throughout life.

The Relationship Cure- A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships by John Gottman PhD and Joan Declaire

The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships

John Gottman, PhD and Joan DeClaire's powerful and simple 5 step programme for greatly improving all relationships in life—with spouses and lovers, children, siblings, and even colleagues at work.

1001 Ways to Be Romantic: Add More Intimacy and Romance in Your Marriage or Love Life by Gregory J. P. Godek book cover

1001 Ways to Be Romantic: Add More Intimacy and Romance in Your Marriage or Love Life

Gregory J. P. Godek's book packed with 1001 unique suggestions, easy gestures, and thoughtful gift ideas to be romantic

Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People by Renee Evenson

Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People

Renee Evenson's book providing some interpersonal skills and powerful phrases that we can use when dealing with difficult people

The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran

The Prophet

A collection of philosophical, spiritual and inspirational essays by Kahlil Gibran that reveal deep insights into the impulses of the human heart and mind

How to Be Alone- If You Want To, and Even If You Don't by Lane Moore

How to Be Alone: If You Want To, and Even If You Don't

Performer & comedian Lane Moore's book charting her own story with being alone and helps those "who desperately wants to feel less alone and a little more connected through reading her words."

How Full Is Your Bucket?

Using the metaphor of a dipper and a bucket, Tom Rath & Don Clinton's book discusses how even the briefest of interactions. with others can affect relationships, productivity, health, and longevity

Emotional Intelligence- Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

Using groundbreaking brain and behavioural research, Daniels Goleman's bestselling book shows how factors including self-awareness, self-discipline, and empathy can make us a different of smart

Carbon Choices by Neil Kitching

Carbon Choices

Neil Kitching's book Carbon Choices offering common sense solutions to our carbon and nature crises. Carbon Choices helps fill any gaps in understanding of climate change and nature loss and lays out the solutions including a green action plan for government, businesses and individuals.

The Inside Out Revolution by Michael Neill

The Inside Out Revolution

Michael Neill's book shares his new understanding of how life works that turns traditional psychology on its head. Built around three simple principles that explain where our feelings come from and how our experience of life can transform for the better in a matter of moments.

The Little Book of Big Change: The No-Willpower Approach to Breaking Any Habit by Dr Amy Johnson, PHD

The Little Book of Big Change: The No-Willpower Approach to Breaking Any Habit

Dr Amy Johnson, PHD, looks at a combination of neuroscience and spirituality to help show you that you are not your addictions or habits and provide a no will-power approach to break them at source

The Relationship Handbook: A Simple Guide to Satisfying Relationships by Dr George Pranksy

The Relationship Handbook: A Simple Guide to Satisfying Relationships

Dr George Pranksy's handbook that helps couples not to "work" on their relationship but to start afresh and be happy together

Preaching to Monkeys: Hope, Healing, and Understanding for Fathers, Sons, and the People Who Love Them

Otto Collins' book discussing the often complicated relationship between fathers and sons, what can divide and what can heal them

The P.E.O.P.L.E. Programme: How to Overcome Your Blocks to Success

John Kenny's book looking at how the relationship we have ourself is a critical factor in determining the relationships that we have with others

Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids – How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting

Dr Laura Markham's book looking at how a change in behaviour by the parent can lead to happier kids. Includes ep-by-step guides and practical tools to transform parenting in a positive, proven way.

The Whole-Brain Child- 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind by Daniel Siegel

The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind

Book from neuroscientist Daniel J. Siegel and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson explaining the science of how a child's brain is wired and how it matures in order to help your children lead balanced, meaningful, and connected lives

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

John Gottman PhD's (founder of the Gottman Institute) revolutionary book discussing the seven principles that guide couples toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Book from John Gottman & Julie Gottman helping to understand how, why, and when to have the eight basic conversations with your partner that can lead to a lifetime of love.

Hold Me Tight- Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Dr Sue Johnson

Hold Me Tight: Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Dr. Sue Johnson's book discussing how Emotionally Focused Therapy can save and enrich relationships through reestablishing emotional connections and attachment bonds

Come As You Are- The Surprising New Science that will Transform Your Sex Life

Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski's book exploring female sexuality works and how understanding it can radically transform your sex life

Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard Markman, Scott Stanley & Susan Blumberg

Fighting for Your Marriage: A Deluxe Revised Edition of the Classic Best-seller for Enhancing Marriage and Preventing Divorce

Book from Howard Markman, Scott Stanley & Susan Blumberg providing strategies to handle conflict more constructively, protect happiness, and reduce the odds of breaking up.

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it can help you find – or keep – love

Amir Levine & Rachel Heller's book providing an insight in to the science of love and how we can build stronger and more fulfilling connections

We Do- Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection and Enduring Love

We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection and Enduring Love

Dr. Stan Tatkin's book that provides a groundbreaking system for helping couples create meaningful and enduring relationships

Sex without Stress- A Couple’s Guide to Overcoming Disppointment, Avoidance, & Pressure

Sex without Stress: A Couple’s Guide to Overcoming Disppointment, Avoidance, & Pressure

Book from Jessa Zimmerman discussing and taking on the questions that naturally arise when couples are struggling with sex

Magnificent Sex- Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers

Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers

Book from Peggy Kleinplatz discussing what makes sex magnificent, the qualities of intimacy and the elements that help bring it about

Good Days Start With Gratitude- A 52 Week Guide To Cultivate An Attitude Of Gratitude- Gratitude Journal book cover

Good Days Start With Gratitude: A 52 Week Guide To Cultivate An Attitude Of Gratitude: Gratitude Journal

Pretty Simple Press's gratitude journal providing a space to be grateful for the big and little things all year round

Rejection Proof: How I Beat Fear and Became Invincible Through 100 Days of Rejection

Book by Jia Jiang telling his own personal tale of rejection and how he spent 100 days seeking out rejection in order to make himself "rejection proof"

Forgiveness- 21 Days to Forgive Everyone for Everything book cover

Forgiveness: 21 Days to Forgive Everyone for Everything

Book by Iyanla Vanzant looking at relationships and practical technicals such as the emotional freedom technique to help on the path to forgiveness

Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It book cover

Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It

A book by Kamal Ravikant detailing why loving yourself is so important and how to go about it

The Family Book by Todd Parr Book Cover

The Family Book

A book from Todd Parr celebrating the love we feel for our families and all the different varieties they come in.

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Knock Knock Why You're My Bestie Fill in the Love Journal

A novel idea for a book by Knock Knock. A gift for your best friend where you fills in the blanks to let them know why they are your best friend

The 5 Love Languages- The Secret to Love that Lasts

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts

Book by Gary Chapman discussing the 5 secrets to having love that lasts. Also includes a "couple's Personal Profile assessment" so you can discover your and your partner's love language.

Give and Take - Why Helping Others Drives Our Success Book Cover

Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Success

Book by Adam Grant looking at why our interactions with others hold the key to success

The Sixth Extinction

The Sixth Extinction: An Unnatural History

There have been 5 major extinctions on the planet. This book by Elizabeth Kolbert looks at how humans have altered the world like no other species and how the sixth extinction could be on it's way

Loves Me...Not- How to Survive (and Thrive!) in the Face of Unrequited Love

Loves Me...Not: How to Survive (and Thrive!) in the Face of Unrequited Love

Samara O'Shea's book telling amusing tales of unrequited and offering advice about how to get over it & the need for tough love

The Disease To Please- Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome Book Cover

The Disease To Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome

Book from Harriet B. Braiker including a quiz to see what type of people pleaser you are and a myriad of tips to help beat the "disease"

Passionate Marriage- Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships.

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships

Book by David Schnarch showing how to keep the passion alive and maintain healthy sexual and emotional fulfilment

Siblings Without Rivalry- How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too Book Cover

Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too

Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish's book giving practical tips on how to "cope with conflict, encourage cooperation, reduce competition, and make it possible for children to experience the joys of their special relationship"

A guide on how to STOP ARGUING: Protect quality time, prevent bickering, preserve love, enjoy life

A guide on how to STOP ARGUING: Protect quality time, prevent bickering, preserve love, enjoy life

Book from CJ Kruse mainly aimed at protecting our most valuable asset, time, from petty or constant arguments

Spread the Love 75 Ways to Build a Better World

Spread the Love: 75 Ways to Build a Better World

Book from the aptly name "Love Book" giving 75 ways and covering areas such as; Acts of Service, Quality Time, Giving, Physical Support, and Communication

Being Me: A Kid's Guide to Boosting Confidence and Self-Esteem

Being Me: A Kid's Guide to Boosting Confidence and Self-Esteem

Book by Wendy L. Moss looking at confidence from a kid's perspective with tips and advice on how to deal challenges and build up confidence and self-esteem

The Art & Science of Respect: A Memoir by James Prince

Serial entrepreneur James Prince's book showing how his core principles of heart, loyalty and commitment have helped him to overcome the many obstacles thrown at him in life

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